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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.New Balance Sneakers - Men New Balance Sneakers online on Australia - 11292614OV, Carmine Marfé Loafers - Men Carmine Marfé Loafers online on Canada - 11532269MV, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Doucal's Loafers - Men Doucal's Loafers online on Canada - 11392173JC, Alexander Mcqueen Boots - Men Alexander Mcqueen Boots online on Canada - 11550429PP,

Now,Avirex Boots - Men Avirex Boots online on Canada - 11558631PX, Eleventy Loafers - Men Eleventy Loafers online on Canada - 11534192WL, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sRegain Loafers - Men Regain Loafers online on Canada - 11516401JC, Jackal Sneakers - Men Jackal Sneakers online on Australia - 11498156UM, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Profession: Bottier Boots - Men Profession: Bottier Boots online on Canada - 11301940DB, Arkk Copenhagen Raven Mesh S-E15 Soft Army Creme Spray - Sneakers - Men Arkk Copenhagen Sneakers online on Australia - 11449828CG, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Cesare Paciotti Sneakers - Men Cesare Paciotti Sneakers online on Australia - 11506594KP, Emanuela Passeri Court - Women Emanuela Passeri Courts online on United Kingdom - 11571673KJ,

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    Holly

    Fauzian Jeunesse Court - Women Fauzian Jeunesse Courts online on United Kingdom - 11301571GB, Hogan Court - Women Hogan Courts online on United Kingdom - 11127565BR, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Men/Women Earth Everwood Good Quality, Cinzia Araia Sneakers - Men Cinzia Araia Sneakers online on Canada - 11573664NE, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Emporio Armani Court - Women Emporio Armani Courts online on United Kingdom - 11424184UC, Kendall + Kylie Boots - Women Kendall + Kylie Boots online on United Kingdom - 11214786OE, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers - Men Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers online on Australia - 11509777XI, Lumberjack Boots - Men Lumberjack Boots online on Canada - 11514583KA, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Guess Court - Women Guess Courts online on United Kingdom - 11547277MG, Kenzo K-Skate Basket - Sneakers - Men Kenzo Sneakers online on Australia - 11430773TB, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Dsquared2 Boots - Men Dsquared2 Boots online on Canada - 11298786KX, Primaforma Sneakers - Men Primaforma Sneakers online on Australia - 11401195QN, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Henry Smith Loafers - Men Henry Smith Loafers online on Canada - 11552452AG, Vans Sneakers - Men Vans Sneakers online on Australia - 11490848UA,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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