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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Morobē Court - Women Morobē Courts online on United Kingdom - 11585050GU, Givenchy Espadrilles - Men Givenchy Espadrilles online on United Kingdom - 11506812OQ, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Lumberjack Loafers - Men Lumberjack Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11441642IP, Leo Studio Design Espadrilles - Women Leo Studio Design Espadrilles online on United Kingdom - 11561555IV,

Now,Panella Boots - Men Panella Boots online on United Kingdom - 11522297BA, Opening Ceremony Sneakers - Men Opening Ceremony Sneakers online on Canada - 11515245NA, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sPatrizia Pepe Flip Flops - Women Patrizia Pepe Flip Flops online on United Kingdom - 11432195TN, Cinzia Araia Boots - Men Cinzia Araia Boots online on United Kingdom - 11086111XC, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    New Balance Sneakers - Men New Balance Sneakers online on Canada - 11262511GE, Gentlemen/Ladies Born Anzer Good Selling All over the World, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Doucal's Boots - Men Doucal's Boots online on United Kingdom - 11462359II, Brimarts Sneakers - Men Brimarts Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11232564TA,

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    Souvenir D’Italie Court - Women Souvenir D’Italie Courts online on United Kingdom - 11577573QH, Maria Cristina Court - Women Maria Cristina Courts online on United Kingdom - 11051860II, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Tatoosh Flip Flops - Women Tatoosh Flip Flops online on United Kingdom - 11526229BL, D’Acquasparta Sneakers - Men D’Acquasparta Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11559634UA, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Buttero® Boots - Men Buttero® Boots online on United Kingdom - 11534678HF, Trussardi Jeans Court - Women Trussardi Jeans Courts online on United Kingdom - 11545917XT, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Buttero® Sneakers - Men Buttero® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11171803ET, Adidas Originals Tubular Shadow - Sneakers - Men Adidas Originals Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11261807AO, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    A.Testoni Loafers - Men A.Testoni Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11549960SV, Sneeky Sneaker Sneakers - Men Sneeky Sneaker online on Canada - 44510276FH, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Roberto Festa Court - Women Roberto Festa Courts online on United Kingdom - 11498046KK, Roberto Botticelli Boots - Men Roberto Botticelli Boots online on United Kingdom - 11515480RB, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Schutz Court - Women Schutz Courts online on United Kingdom - 11533332QR, Camper Sneakers - Men Camper Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11555407GV, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Adidas Originals Sneakers - Men Adidas Originals Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11463598DK, Soludos Jason Polan Avocado Platform Smoking Slipper - Espadrilles - Women Soludos Espadrilles online on United Kingdom - 11419475QO, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Doucal's Loafers - Men Doucal's Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11567352JX, Dolce & Gabbana Loafers - Men Dolce & Gabbana Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11242971JJ,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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