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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Diadora Heritage Sneakers - Men Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on Canada - 11507425CI, Lotto Leggenda Sneakers - Men Lotto Leggenda Sneakers online on Canada - 11452806FO, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Puma Sneakers - Men Puma Sneakers online on Canada - 11333674GB, Ylati Sneakers - Men Ylati Sneakers online on Canada - 11144653QP,

Now,Roberto Della Croce Boots - Men Roberto Della Croce Boots online on United Kingdom - 11529918MH, Daniele Alessandrini Sneakers - Men Daniele Alessandrini Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11507143EC, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sLeonardo Principi Boots - Men Leonardo Principi Boots online on United Kingdom - 11509819HE, Tod's Loafers - Men Tod's Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11036417DG, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Wize & Ope Sneakers - Men Wize & Ope Sneakers online on Canada - 11317593HL, Fabi Loafers - Men Fabi Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11548149LK, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Nike Sneakers - Men Nike Sneakers online on Canada - 11504120DO, Diadora Heritage Sneakers - Men Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11228872EF,

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    Holly

    Roberto Cavalli Sneakers - Men Roberto Cavalli Sneakers online on Canada - 11577146SO, Etnies Sneakers - Men Etnies Sneakers online on Canada - 11112086JG, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Sergio Rossi Court - Women Sergio Rossi Courts online on United Kingdom - 11287655EJ, Maison Margiela Sneakers - Men Maison Margiela Sneakers online on Canada - 11357895KN, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Pinko Court - Women Pinko Courts online on United Kingdom - 11456994OO, Unützer Court - Women Unützer Courts online on United Kingdom - 11527304QD, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Converse All Star Sneakers - Men Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11493685IG, Rosso Reale Court - Women Rosso Reale Courts online on United Kingdom - 11527324AO, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Supra Sneakers - Men Supra Sneakers online on Canada - 11473625KA, Vans Sneakers - Men Vans Sneakers online on Canada - 11492165DE, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Camper Peu Cami - Sneakers - Men Camper Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11435394XB, Santoni Sneakers - Men Santoni Sneakers online on Canada - 11541485XI, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Prada Sport Sneakers - Men Prada Sport Sneakers online on Canada - 11496629VS, Barleycorn Sneakers - Men Barleycorn Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11504414DE,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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