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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Bruno Loasses Boots - Men Bruno Loasses Boots online on United Kingdom - 11455705SP, Premiata Court - Women Premiata Courts online on United Kingdom - 11519274TH, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Alexander Mcqueen Boots - Men Alexander Mcqueen Boots online on United Kingdom - 11497414AQ, Stuart Weitzman Court - Women Stuart Weitzman Courts online on United Kingdom - 11533371WW,

Now,Luca Di Napoli Loafers - Men Luca Di Napoli Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11515264HP, Versus Versace Sneakers - Men Versus Versace Sneakers online on Canada - 11469761HB, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sDrkshdw By Rick Owens Sneakers - Men Drkshdw By Rick Owens Sneakers online on Canada - 11113211KH, Leo Studio Design Espadrilles - Women Leo Studio Design Espadrilles online on United Kingdom - 11573350WO, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Dsquared2 Boots - Men Dsquared2 Boots online on United Kingdom - 11550007EJ, Vans Sk8-Hi Mte Cup - Sneakers - Men Vans Sneakers online on Canada - 11108250WO, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Diadora Sneakers - Men Diadora Sneakers online on Canada - 11484218RD, Antica Calzoleria Campana Loafers - Men Antica Calzoleria Campana Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11453669IW,

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    Holly

    Nostrasantissima Boots - Men Nostrasantissima Boots online on United Kingdom - 11461138RK, Marina Yachting Espadrilles - Men Marina Yachting Espadrilles online on United Kingdom - 11533140KX, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Officine Creative Italia Loafers - Men Officine Creative Italia Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11513279DX, Roberto Festa Court - Women Roberto Festa Courts online on United Kingdom - 44849105SA, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Pedro García Boots - Men Pedro García Boots online on United Kingdom - 11528336RF, Emanuel Ungaro Flip Flops - Women Emanuel Ungaro Flip Flops online on United Kingdom - 11543214CT, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Mi Piaci By Dafni Court - Women Mi Piaci By Dafni Courts online on United Kingdom - 11483045FP, Converse All Star Pro Leather - Sneakers - Men Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11574642RU, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Philippe Model Sneakers - Men Philippe Model Sneakers online on Canada - 11561221RK, Lotto Leggenda Sneakers - Men Lotto Leggenda Sneakers online on Canada - 11206898XA, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Doucal's Boots - Men Doucal's Boots online on United Kingdom - 11539507HX, Voile Blanche Sneakers - Men Voile Blanche Sneakers online on Canada - 11534925QR, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Adeep Boots - Men Adeep Boots online on United Kingdom - 11548319GD, Rick Owens Boots - Men Rick Owens Boots online on United Kingdom - 11513130OT,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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