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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Pony Sneakers - Men Pony Sneakers online on Canada - 11470629PE, Springa Sneakers - Men Springa Sneakers online on Canada - 11329479IT, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Arfango Loafers - Men Arfango Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11458629GV, Onitsuka Tiger Sneakers - Men Onitsuka Tiger Sneakers online on Canada - 11256176UF,

Now,Laura Biagiotti Espadrilles - Women Laura Biagiotti Espadrilles online on United Kingdom - 11572037WU, Armani Jeans Sneakers - Men Armani Jeans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11325870JX, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sRick Owens Sneakers - Men Rick Owens Sneakers online on Canada - 11398585CA, Man's/Woman's Report Dree Buy now, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Fratelli Rossetti Boots - Men Fratelli Rossetti Boots online on United Kingdom - 11550227LF, Puma Sneakers - Men Puma Sneakers online on Canada - 11559305NL, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Emporio Armani Loafers - Men Emporio Armani Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11570861RN, Brunello Cucinelli Sneakers - Men Brunello Cucinelli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11516211DV,

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    Holly

    Bikkembergs Sneakers - Men Bikkembergs Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11326230WA, Vans Sneakers - Men Vans Sneakers online on Canada - 11174448GJ, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Unisa Court - Women Unisa Courts online on United Kingdom - 11473526RF, D.A.T.E. Sneakers - Men D.A.T.E. Sneakers online on Canada - 11216182AV, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Vans Ua Classic Slip-On - Checkerboard - Sneakers - Men Vans Sneakers online on Canada - 11198366IO, Vans Sneakers - Men Vans Sneakers online on Canada - 11478874XW, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Angelo Pallotta Boots - Men Angelo Pallotta Boots online on United Kingdom - 11484982KE, Nike Sneakers - Men Nike Sneakers online on Canada - 11335600IM, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Adidas Originals I-5923 - Sneakers - Men Adidas Originals Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11540530CD, Rosso Reale Court - Women Rosso Reale Courts online on United Kingdom - 11517498RK, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Springa Sneakers - Men Springa Sneakers online on Canada - 11457295GM, Lanvin Sneakers - Men Lanvin Sneakers online on Canada - 11514209IA, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Dolce & Gabbana Loafers - Men Dolce & Gabbana Loafers online on United Kingdom - 11526936WL, Bibi Lou Flip Flops - Women Bibi Lou Flip Flops online on United Kingdom - 11382647GI,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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